23 March 2008

one lesson

if there's one recurring lesson in my life that i can't seem to learn, it's this:

"Things will happen effortlessly when they are meant to be."

i guess i'm a bit too optimistic. i know it's not meant for me but at the back of my mind, i keep telling myself: what if there's still a chance? it's like holding on to nothing. but i guess it's one of the things that keep me going --- the hope that someday i'll get my own dose of happy endings.

one lesson

if there's one recurring lesson in my life that i can't seem to learn, it's this:

"Things will happen effortlessly when they are meant to be."

i guess i'm a bit too optimistic. i know it's not meant for me but at the back of my mind, i keep telling myself: what if there's still a chance? it's like holding on to nothing. but i guess it's one of the things that keep me going --- the hope that someday i'll get my own dose of happy endings.

19 March 2008

"...and we're back in."

"...and we're back in."

yes, my computer is fixed and i'm back in the social e-circle. and guess what, i only have to spend a hundred pesos for it, a glass of soda and few laughs.

thanks, alex. i owe you BIG TIME.

17 March 2008

i think i have the yips

whatever happened to me? i used to be this spontaneous, easy-going person. now, i'm so up-tight, grumpy and i think i'm having the yips (when you overthink about doing something that you end up almost not doing it).

you see i'm currently faced with a decision. a friend of mine transferred to bacolod and he's asking me if i'm considering working there. same company, same position, but a whole new environment. of course, when faced with something like this, you get old the yellow legal pad and start jotting down all the pros and cons.

pros:

>i'll be able to get out of my comfort zone (read: new faces, new places)

>i'll be able to live in a hotel for 2 weeks

>it's gonna be a challenge (new program, new SOPs)

>this might help my career's growth

>since it's a new program, faster promotion is a big possibility

>might be the best place to finally heal

cons:

>eventually, after the 2-week hotel stay and the relocation allowance is done with, i'll eventually have to rent (not practical to think that i'm the breadwinner and I still have to send money to my family; here in Manila, i don't have to pay rent)

>all my friends and family are here in the city, gonna miss them so much

So, what do you think? should i go for it?

how to stop over-eating

How to Stop Overeating
By Elaine Magee, RD, MPH

Babies are born knowing to eat when they are hungry and stop when they are comfortable. But as we grow up and are exposed to fad diets, advertising, food used as a reward, etc., many of us unlearn this beautifully balanced way of eating and begin to overeat.

Yet eating when you are hungry and stopping when you are comfortable is one of the keys to healthy eating and living, says Linda Bacon, PhD, nutrition professor at the City College of San Francisco.

Much has been written on the "eating when you're hungry" side of this equation. But how do you learn to stop when you're comfortable if you've lost touch with this over the years?


Experts say there are things you can do to make yourself more likely to stop eating when you are comfortable. They include:


Eating Slowly
This isn't a new concept. Remember all those familiar dieting tips like "sip water between bites" and "chew thoroughly before swallowing"? These were all aimed at slowing us down when we eat. Research led by Mark Gold, MD, at the University of Florida at Gainesville has shown it takes 12 or more minutes for food satisfaction signals to reach the brain of a thin person, but 20 or more minutes for an obese person. Eating slowly ensures that these important messages have time to reach the brain.

Being Aware
"Be more attentive about the whole eating experience; don't eat when you are driving or at the computer," Bacon advises. When we're distracted or hurried, the food—and calories—we eat tend not to register well in our brains. Jean Kristeller, PhD, a psychologist and Indiana State University researcher, suggests a brief premeal meditation to get centered before eating so you can more easily derive pleasure from your food, give the meal your full attention and notice when you've had enough.

Make the First Bites Count
Bacon believes that maximum food enjoyment comes in the initial bites. "After a few bites, taste buds start to lose their sensitivity to the chemicals in food that make it taste good," she explains. Satisfying your taste buds by really savoring those first few bites may help you stop eating when you're physically comfortable.

Keep up appearances
Using a smaller plate and paying attention to the presentation of a meal can increase your awareness of the food in front of you and help you stop eating when you are comfortable. "The brain looks at the plate and decides if the portion is adequate," Gold says. "It takes some time, but the smaller the plate, the smaller the portion."

Choose Satisfying Foods
Steer away from foods that give you a lot of calories for very little volume, such as milk shakes, cheese and chocolate, Gold recommends. The higher the fiber, protein and/or water content of a food or meal, the more likely it is to be satisfying in your stomach without going overboard on calories.

Research during the past decade suggests there are three factors that help make a meal more satisfying: the weight of the food, the amount of protein and the amount of fiber.

A revolutionary study done by researchers at the University of Sydney in 1995 noted that of the 38 foods tested, certain foods scored higher in satiety. Top-scoring foods included whole-meal bread, grainy bread, cheese, eggs, brown pasta, popcorn, all-bran cereal, grapes, porridge, baked beans, apples, beefsteak, ling fish (a type of cod) and oranges. All of these foods are high in fiber, water or protein.

And which foods tend to have low satiety scores—making them much easier to overeat? These would be foods with large amounts of fat, sugar and/or refined carbohydrates, like potato chips, candy bars and white bread.

15 March 2008

76/170: i still have a life kung ganon...

> If you've seen over 85 movies, you
have no life.

> Mark the ones you've seen.

> There are about 170 movies on this
list.


> Put your score in title and repost

> ( ) Sukob
> ( ) Oh my ghost!
> ( ) White lady
> ( ) Wag kang lilingon
> ( ) Feng shui
> (x) KKK (kasal, kasali, kasalo)
> (x) Enteng Kabisote
> (x) Enteng Kabisote 2
> ( ) Enteng Kabisote 3
> (x) Super Noypi
> ( ) Karma
> ( ) Shake, Rattle and Roll
> ( ) D Anothers
> ( ) First Day High
>
> Total: 4
>
> (x) Bring it On 1
> (x) Bring it On 2
> (x) Bring it On 3
> ( ) Fun With Dick and Jane
> ( ) Cake
> (x) Zathura
> ( ) Borat
> (x) Dead or Alive
> ( ) 8 mile
> (X) 50 First Dates
> (X) The Princess Diaries
> (x) The Princess Diaries 2: Royal
> (x) Legally Blonde
> (x) Legally Blonde 2
>
> Total: 10
>
> (x) Charlie's Angels
> (x) Charlie's Angels 2
> ( ) Dude, where's my car?
> (x) Scary Movie
> ( ) Scary Movie 2
> ( ) Scary Movie 3
> ( ) Scary Movie 4
> ( ) American Pie
> ( ) American Pie 2
> ( ) American WeddinG
> ( ) American Pie Band Camp
>
> Total: 3
>
> (X) Harry Potter
> (X) Harry Potter 2
> (X) Harry Potter 3
> (X) Harry Potter 4
> ( ) Resident Evil 1
> ( ) Resident Evil 2
> ( ) The Wedding Singer
> ( ) Cinderella Man
> ( ) The Village
> (x) Coyote Ugly
>
> Total: 5
>
> (x) Space Jam
> (X) Finding Neverland
> ( ) Signs
> ( ) The Grinch
> ( ) Texas Chainsaw Massacre
> (X) White Chicks
> (x) Little Manhattan
> (x) 13 Going on 30
> (X) Click
> (X) Devil Wears Prada
>
> Total: 7
>
> (x) Mighty Ducks 1
> ( ) Mighty Ducks 2
> ( ) Mighty Ducks 3
> ( ) Mighty Ducks 4
> ( ) Deep Impact
> ( ) KingPin
> (x) Meet The Parents
> (x) Meet the Fockers
> ( ) Eight Crazy Nights
> ( ) Joe Dirt
> ( ) Anaconda
>
> Total: 3
>
> ( ) Alice in Wonderland
> (X) The Terminal
> (x) The Lizzie McGuire Movie
> ( ) Deep Blue Sea
> ( ) Dumb & Dumber
> ( ) Dumber & Dumberer
> (x) Final Destination
> (x) Final Destination 2
> ( ) Final Destination 3
> ( ) Halloween
> (X) The Ring
> ( ) The Ring 2
> ( ) Ring Zero
> (X) Flubber
> ( ) Harold & Kumar Go To White Castle
> (x) Practical Magic
> (X) Chicago
> ( ) Ghost Ship
> ( ) From Hell
> ( ) Hellboy
> ( ) Secret Window
> (x) I Am Sam
>
> Total: 9
>
> (x) The Day After Tomorrow
> ( ) Child's Play
> ( ) Seed of Chucky
> ( ) Bride of Chucky
> (x) 10 Things I Hate About You
> ( ) Just Married
> ( ) Gothika
> ( ) Nightmare on Elm Street
> ( ) Sixteen Candles
> ( ) Remember the Titans
> ( ) Coach Carter
> ( ) The Grudge
> ( ) The Grudge 2
> (X) The Mask
> (x) Son Of The Mask
>
> Total: 4
>
> (x) My Super Ex-Girlfriend
> ( ) Joy Ride
> (x) She's the Man
> (X) Ocean's Eleven
> (X) Ocean's Twelve
> (x) Mean Girls
> (x) Step Up
> ( ) Pearl Harbor
> ( ) Predator I
> ( ) Predator II
> ( ) Superstar
> (x) Happy Feet
> (x) Ice Age
> ( ) Ice age 2 The Meltdown
>
> Total: 8
>
> (x) Independence Day
> ( ) Cujo
> ( ) Idle Hands
> ( ) Darkness Falls
> ( ) Children of the Corn
> ( ) My Boss' Daughter
> (x) Maid in Manhattan
> (X) Monsters Inc.
> (X) Rush Hour
> (x) Rush Hour 2
> ( ) Best Bet
> (x) How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
> (x) She's All That
> (x) Poseidon
> (x) Titanic
> (x) Mars Attacks
> ( ) Event Horizon
> ( ) Ever After
> (x) Forrest Gump
> ( ) Big Trouble in Little China
> ( ) The Terminator
> ( ) The Terminator 2
> ( ) The Terminator 3
>
> Total: 10
>
> ( ) X-Men
> ( ) X-Men 2
> (x) X-Men 3
> ( ) Spider-Man
> ( ) Spider-Man 2
> (x) Sky High
> ( ) Jeepers Creepers
> ( ) Jeepers Creepers 2
> (x) Catch Me If You Can
> ( ) The Others
> (x) The Eye
> ( ) Dark Water
> (x) Cruel Intentions
> ( ) Cruel Intentions 2
> (x) The Hot Chick
> (x) Shrek
> (x) Shrek 2
>
> Total: 8
>
> ( ) Swimfan
> ( ) Miracle
> (X) School of Rock
> ( ) K-Paxx
> (x)Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship
> of the Ring
> ( ) Lord of the Rings: The Two Towers
> ( ) Lord of the Rings: The Return of
> the King
> (x) A Walk To Remember
> (X) Hollow Man
> ( ) The 40-year-old-virgin
> ( ) The Exorcist
> (X)Exorcism of Emily Rose
>
> Total: 5
>
>

the cliche of irony and "shits happen"

my social e-life is currently put on hold due to some very very unfortunate circumstance: my pc is broken again. just when my 2 sisters need to finish their powerpoint presentation for their thesis defense, just when my COMSci-taking sister needs to finish the website they were assigned to do and just when i finally decided to create another blog for my little pieces of so-called "literature".

grrr. this sucks major. i can't surf, i can't blog, i can't update and worse of all, i'll be the one paying for the computer/internet hours my siblings will use to finish all their projects. ironic, huh?

02 March 2008

i got my saturdays back!

at last, i got my saturdays back!

after 10 months and 8 days, i'll finally be able to live an almost normal weekend!

my social calendar's back on track!